Bagel and Hot Tea Update!

Highlight since last Thursday: Last night we held our first ever Messianic Seder with our high school group. I had never seen a Seder much less led one before, but I thought it went well. It was really cool to be a part of something that has such history and meaning. I hope the students got a lot out of it.

Books I’m reading: I’m still reading “Sticky Church” by Larry Osborne. I have been a little distracted this past week, so my reading suffered.

Music I’m digging: I’ve been listening to my old R&B mix on iTunes this week. Oh, it’s been awesome!

Ministry update: Now that the Seder is over, I have almost nothing to do this weekend. I am running sound tonight at our Good Friday service, but there is no youth group or Sunday school to prepare for. I get to relax and enjoy the Easter season!

Something Random: Someone put a different type of tea in the green tea jar here at Panera. It’s still good, but it was not what I was looking for.

Looking forward to: In just an hour or so, Jill and I will be heading down to Des Moines to meet my new nephew, Benjamin. I am also excited to see my family on Easter Sunday and spending time with them.

Final Thoughts: Okay, the bitter herbs part of Seder is overwhelming. If you’ve never had a tablespoon of horseradish before, it will knock you over!

Bagel and Hot Tea Update!

Highlight since last Thursday: Both of our youth groups on Sunday went really well. With the jr. high group we did a blindfold “scavenger hunt”. It was hilarious! In our high school group we had our “family meal”. Those nights are always a good time. I was exhausted after the night was over, but it really was a great time.

Books I’m reading: A couple of months ago, my friend Brandon Barker recommended the book “Sticky Church” by Larry Osborne. So, I started reading it yesterday. I’ll let you know what I think later.

Music I’m digging: I dug out the Coldplay on my iTunes. I haven’t listened to them at all in the past few months. I really like them.

Ministry update: The Easter season always seems to be so busy for so many of my friends, but I hardly have anything to do. I don’t know why, but I don’t mind it at all. Also, our new pastor of teaching and discipleship has started. He moved in last week and his first official day was yesterday. I’m excited to see how we work together and how God uses him to impact our community.

Something Random: Yesterday I tried to explain Twitter to a couple of 50 year old guys. It didn’t go so well. But hey, I still don’t understand everything about Twitter, but I do have over 700 tweets under my belt and I have 39 followers. I’m pretty cool.

Looking forward to: Hopefully, by this time next week my newest nephew will be here. My sister is due on April 8th. It’s pretty exciting, and I know she’s ready.

Final Thoughts: I’m in a weird place right now. I love what I’m doing, I know this is where God wants us, but I feel like a square peg crammed in a round hole. I don’t know exactly why God has us here, but it has been exciting and I am glad we are here.

What I’m not.

I’m not a babysitting service. If you need babysitting, you can call the teenagers yourself. Oh, and that goes for if you need your lawn raked or driveway shoveled!

I’m not a glorified babysitter. I work with young men and women who are changing the world they (and you) live in!

I’m not a fundraiser. If you really want your child to go on the trip, you can make them work for it.

I’m not always free. I do have a life that isn’t ministry related. Granted, not much of one, but still.

I’m not perfect. Just because people call me “pastor” doesn’t mean I have it all together.

I’m not a push-over. If you’re messed up, I’ll tell you. I’ll tell you in love, but you’re going to hear it.

I’m not emergent, edgy, or disgruntled with the church. I just think that often times we could be doing things better.

I’m not shy.

I’m not always happy. Sometimes I have a bad day.

I’m not a teenager. Just because I work and spend time with teenagers does not mean I am one. I’m in my thirties! I have experience . I have ideas, and a lot of them are good ideas!

I’m not the reason your teenager hates God. Well, probably not.

The best youth pastor ever?

trophy2A couple times a year, with our high school group, we do what we lovingly call a family meal. We get several frozen lasagnas, some breadsticks and salad from Sam’s club. We set up the room so it looks nice with table cloths and candles, and we enjoy a meal together as a youth group. It is always fun. One of the things we do during this night is to pass around what we call encouragement sheets. We give each person a sheet of paper, they put their name on it and then pass it to the right. The sheet goes around the tables to everyone, and each person writes a short note of encouragement to the person. The students love it, and many of them put them on their walls at home, or in their lockers at school.

Last night, on my sheet, there were several student who wrote “you’re the best youth pastor ever”. Now, I appreciate the encouragement, and I truly appreciate that God has used me to impact their lives in a positive way, but “the best youth pastor ever” is a big statement. I know a lot of youth pastors, and a lot of really good ones. I need to be kinder, I get too busy sometimes. I don’t go to enough of their school activities, and I’m not nearly the communicator or the creative mind as some of my youth pastor friends.

So, I began to think about this subject. I have to believe that other youth pastors are told by their students that they are the best ever. Can there really be thousands of the “best ever”? Or, is it simply that for this time and in this place and in their lives God has chosen to use me in their lives. So, am I the best ever? Of course not. If you’re a youth pastor, you’re not the best ever either, but to our students, in their lives right now, we can make an impact.

So if you’re a youth pastor, you are the best youth pastor ever! Keep up the good work! Keep fighting for the generation we work with, and know that you are not alone.

“Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.” Galatians 6:7-10

The arts & worship

I’m married to an artist. She paints and draws and she is awesome at it. Over the years we have had several conversations about our worship times at church. She is not very musical, so sometimes it’s hard for her to feel like she is worshipping, but when she gets to pull out the paints, she feels like she is worshipping.

Lately I have been sorting through how we incorporate the arts (painting, drawing, poetry, writing, etc.) alongside our music during our worship times in the youth group. So I decided to try some new things. I don’t know how they will work, but I want students and leaders to worship in the ways that God has hardwired into them. Here’s the scoop: Jill and I built a large (7.5 ft. x 3.5ft) canvas and hung it on the wall in the youth room. We bought a bunch of paint, and let them at it. I’m calling it a “continuous painting” where each week during the worship time those students who want to can paint even if it is over something from last week. The other thing we did was to hang several smaller chalk boards so that writers can write on them.

I don’t know if these things will help people connect in worship, but I had to give it a try. Tell me what you think. Here’s a couple of pictures from last night where we unveiled these forms of worship.

Just some thinking

Here’s something I wrote last week and read to our high school group. I’ve never considered myself much of a writer, so maybe this is incoherent, but I thought I would share.

beautiful_sunsetDo you ever think about God? I mean really think about Him. I know we pray to Him, maybe we talk about Him and sometimes we even read about Him, but have you ever sat back and watched a sunset and thought about the majesty of God who painted it? Or have you stared at a tree and considered God who sculpted it? Do you ever think about the mystery of God? How can God be powerful enough to create the mountains and yet gentle enough piece together a hummingbird? How can God know everything about everyone and still care for each of us personally? That’s the mystery of God. We are unable to fully understand God. He has always been. There is no start to God. He exists in the past, present and future at the same time. We can’t explain that. God is big and He is small. He’s larger than the heavens and yet He is in the microscopic. He creates and he sustains. We can try to fit Him into our understanding, but we can’t. Job said, “His Spirit made the heavens beautiful, and his power pierced the gliding serpent. These are just the beginning of all that he does, merely a whisper of his power. Who, then, can comprehend the thunder of his power?” (Job 26:13,14 NLT)

The funny thing about humans is that we are the only one of God’s creations that thinks that we have it all figured out, like we don’t need help. We go through forest of every day life and amongst the trees we get lost. We don’t know where to go and what to do next. And there’s God, outside of the mess and confusion, like a choir director at the back of the room listening to it all come together. Like a football coach in the skybox with a perspective we can’t get on the field. Or the choreographer standing elevated to watch the entire production unfold. We’re so focused on our part, or what we think our part should be, that it’s hard to see the beautiful scene come together from where we stand, but God sees it all. But the mystery of God also says that in that mess, He is right there with us, guiding and encouraging and helping us through the mud and dirt and pain of life. He is the elevated director and He is the close and personal guide. We can’t define Him, just trust Him. We can’t see what He sees. We can believe what He says.

Our problem is that we have become so focused on our own plight that it has invaded every aspect of our life. God has become an add-on to our lives, like a bumper sticker on our car or a fancy piece of jewelry to go around our neck. He even becomes a side note in our prayers and in our worship. In his book, “Godology”, Christian George writes, “What do we pray about? We often pray for ourselves; ‘Lord Jesus, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’ We also pray for exams, comforts, cars, and job promotions. But insular prayers grow boring after a while. It’s tiring always being the subject of the sentence. God doesn’t want to be our footnote; He seeks to be our title. It’s time to elevate God with prayers that revolve around His ability and His beauty. God should rightfully occupy the center of our prayers.” We have to stop trying to add God to our lives like mustard to a hot dog. God is not to be added to make things better. He should be our whole life, not an accessory.
It’s time to be awed again. It’s time to be filled with wonder again. It’s time to rejoice in the mystery of God. We need to find comfort and fear in the knowledge of who God is. We must stop adding God to our lives, or treating Him like some almighty vending machine. He should be our whole life. It’s time to praise Him because of who He is, not because we like it, or because we feel good doing it, but because He deserves it. No more turning praising God into one more thing about ourselves. It’s time to listen to the words of the psalmist who said.

Praise the LORD.
Praise the LORD from the heavens,
praise him in the heights above.

Praise him, all his angels,
praise him, all his heavenly hosts.

Praise him, sun and moon,
praise him, all you shining stars.

Praise him, you highest heavens
and you waters above the skies.

Let them praise the name of the LORD,
for he commanded and they were created.

He set them in place for ever and ever;
he gave a decree that will never pass away.

Praise the LORD from the earth,
you great sea creatures and all ocean depths,

lightning and hail, snow and clouds,
stormy winds that do his bidding,

you mountains and all hills,
fruit trees and all cedars,

wild animals and all cattle,
small creatures and flying birds,

kings of the earth and all nations,
you princes and all rulers on earth,

young men and maidens,
old men and children.

Let them praise the name of the LORD,
for his name alone is exalted;
his splendor is above the earth and the heavens.

He has raised up for his people a horn,
the praise of all his saints,
of Israel, the people close to his heart.

Praise the LORD.

Psalm 148 (NIV)

Bagel and Hot Tea Update!

Highlight since last Thursday: Tuesday evening Jill and I were blessed to have Ashley and Ashley come in from the Chicago area and visit us. They were in our group in Illinois. It was  lot of fun, and we laughed really hard. It was so nice to see how they have grown up. It was nice.

Books I’m reading: I finished reading “Godology: Because Knowing God Changes Everythingby Christian George. It was good. I’ll put a review up here soon. On a side note, I don’t know if I am any good at book reviews. I haven’t written one since high school. I started reading “Doubting” by Alister McGrath. I’m not very far into it, so I can’t really comment on it yet.

Music I’m digging: I realized that I never have any cool new music for you. I’ve been listening to a lot of Hillsong this past week.

Ministry update: It’s spring break here, so there hasn’t been much going on. I am working on a worship night for this Sunday, but there isn’t a whole lot happening right now.

Something Random: Have you ever met someone who is afraid of old things? Taking them into an antique store can be a hilarious experience.

Looking forward to: It has been nice not having a lot to do this week, but I am looking forward to all the students coming home. I miss seeing everyone.

Final Thoughts: It’s March Madness. I’m in a boatload of pools (not for money) and I decided to make all the pools the same. Here’s my bracket if you want to see it.

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